My Story
My journey to becoming a breakup recovery coach began with my own story of heartache and transformation. I met my ex at church, and I thought it would be wonderful to date someone who acknowledged God in his life and claimed to love and know Him. We dated for three years, and during that time, I got pregnant with my daughter. Because we were both active in the church, I felt embarrassed to be pregnant and unmarried. I think he did too, so we decided to get married.
Deep down, I knew things between us weren't the best, but I prayed and hoped that he would change and things would improve. I felt comfortable with him, but it wasn't until after our divorce that I realized why. He was a lot like my father, who was a narcissist. In 2007, we got married, and I held onto the fantasy of a perfect life together. Unfortunately, my reality was far from what I had hoped for.
Years of arguments and unhappiness followed. One day, I found myself alone in the bathroom, and I heard a voice clearly say, "You are unhappy; you need to make a change." That was the moment I decided to serve my ex with divorce papers. Shortly after, I moved to another state to start over.
It took me years to recognize my self-worth and understand that I deserved everything I wanted out of life and a relationship. The healing process was long and difficult. After my divorce, I felt lost and overwhelmed with feelings of anger and sadness over the life I thought I should have had. I wondered if I would be alone for the rest of my life.
In my quest to fill the void, I started dating and meeting men who were all wrong for me. Then, I realized I needed to dive deeply into self-development and focus on what would make me truly happy. That's when I discovered coaching, and I knew it was my purpose to help and support women who have gone through a breakup or divorce.
In 2018, I established myself as a Certified Life and Relationship Coach. My mission is to empower women in this challenging part of life where they have found themselves feeling hopeless after a breakup. Armed with self-love and self-confidence after working with me, you will feel the joy in life again and take back control over who you are now and who you want to be.